13 HARSH TRUTHS OF LIFE.

 

1. No one will stay in your life forever, even your parents or partner will one day leave this world - so, learn to stand alone and be responsible for your own life.

2. PEOPLE WILL USE YOU - They will use you for various reasons to attain; Money, fame, power and personal satisfaction -(sex). As a citizen of this world for 30 years+ now, I have built my own kind of shield. I have learned how to walk away when I noticed my fellow human being is using me. It’s hard but it’s the best way to cut the heavy emotion that soon would destroy my whole being. I let them go, I let everyone go for the sake of my mental and emotional health.

3. MONEY IS IMPORTANT - without money, we can’t buy the things we need and want. Sometimes, you can’t even have friends without money. *Truth is that we humans just need a minimal amount of money to buy and sustain our basic needs in this world. - I keep this in mind whenever I feel depressed about this complicated world we live in.

4. We fall in love with someone and they feel the same towards us. After how many Days, Weeks, Months or even Years we will bump into the realization that we are not really that in love with them as we thought we were. This feeling like we’re flying when we are with our special someone will gradually fade and fly away from us, we try to catch that feeling again but it was destined to go away from us. We wouldn’t feel the same towards them anymore. We wouldn’t want to hurt their feelings and the feelings of everyone around us so we continue to pretend that everything is okay until this will gradually destroy our whole being.

5. People will say they love you but truth is they really don’t know what the word ‘I LOVE YOU’ means just as we are. They are lost as we are. They yearn for attention, affection and care from other living human beings just as we are. The moment we feel we are being used to and we feel unimportant, we blame them but aren’t we the one who expected too much? Believed too easy? Stayed too close to them? We are the painter of our own lives, therefore we are responsible of our own feelings and every action we make towards every situation we face in.

6. Life is hard and then you die. No matter how lucky, happy, wealthy or successful you have been, in the end you die. A rich and happy man will see death as a nasty and evil enemy, a poor and unhappy man will see death as liberator and as the final release of all miseries in life.

7. Most people could not care less of you and they are only happy if you have troubles. So they can relate their own misery to yours.

8. The best of the women are attracted to the worst of the men. Men are attracted to women solely by their appearance.

9. Intelligence will make you hated. It is better to be dumb and beautiful than intelligent and ugly since dumb equals good.

10. The only ones you can really rely on and trust are your blood relatives. They will also be your worst enemies. Family is both the best and the worst.

11. Nothing is permanent and you may easily lose everything you have attained in your life. The most sure-fire way for this is divorce. Avoid both marriage and divorce as long as you are able to. Because if you're able or willing, then you really don't love the person or it's time to leave.

12. Never marry for money. It is cheaper to borrow.

13. Nobody gives a shit about what you are going through in your life, they are just here to listen to your stories. So, arm yourself with what you have and begin to work.

Everything and Everyone is temporary. Death is Inevitable, we all have our expiration date. Would you choose to spend it on the rough road or in a peaceful journey? it’s all up to you.